This is yet another pop quiz that looks at how Washington courts apply our state’s community property laws to specific individuals and their unique stories.   To recap:  Washington is a community property state, which generally means that all property that a couple acquires during their marriage is presumed to be jointly owned by both spouses, while all property acquired before (or after) marriage is considered to be separate property.  Although these rules seem pretty clear in black and white, in real life it can be quite difficult to determine which property is community and which is separate.  The Borghi case provides one example of how the line between “separate” and “community” can be easily blurred.

In 1966, Jeanette Borghi purchased a piece of property under a real estate contract.  About nine years later, she married Robert Borghi.  Shortly after their marriage, a development company issued a special warranty deed for the property to “Robert G. & Jeanette L. Borghi, husband and wife.” Jeanette and Robert lived together on the property for 15 years, and at one point took out a mortgage on the property so that they could purchase a mobile home.

In June of 2005, Jeanette died without having executed a will stating her wishes for the distribution of her property.  She had two heirs: Robert, and Arthur Gilroy, her son from a previous marriage.  The estate went into probate with Robert acting as the personal representative.  Robert asked the court to determine whether or not the property was community property.  If the property was considered community, then it would pass to Robert.  If not, Arthur was entitled to a one-half share in the property.

The probate court ruled that the property was community.  Arthur appealed, arguing that the property was the separate property of his mother.  The Court of Appeals “reluctantly” agreed with him.  Robert (or rather, Robert’s estate as Robert passed away in 2006 before a final determination was made) then appealed that decision.

The issue before the Supreme Court of Washington on appeal was this: “whether the real property acquired by Jeanette Borghi prior to her marriage to Robert Borghi changed in character from her separate property to community property by the time of her death.”  Specifically, the Supreme Court had to determine whether the 1975 deed that included both Robert’s and Jeanette’s names changed the character of the property from separate to community.

Robert argued that the inclusion of his name on the deed created a presumption that Jeanette intended to make a gift of her separate property to the community.  Arthur argued that the deed was insufficient evidence of his mother’s intention to convert her separate property to community property.

How did the court decide?

A. The Supreme Court ruled that because Robert’s name was on the 1975 deed, the court had to presume that Jeanette made a gift of her separate property to the community, making Robert and her equal owners of the property.  If Jeanette had intended to keep the property separate, the deed would have been in Jeanette’s name only.

B. The Supreme Court ruled that a deed in both parties’ names was not sufficient evidence that Jeanette intended to change the character of her separate property.  Because there are many reasons why it would make good business sense for spouses to create joint title that have nothing to do with any intent to community property, the court could not presume that a change in title was evidence of intent to change the character of separate property.   Thus, the property had to be presumed to be the separate property of Jeanette.

C. The Supreme Court ruled that a deed in both parties’ names was not sufficient evidence that Jeanette intended to change the character of her separate property.  Additional evidence was required to show Jeanette’s intent.  The court remanded the case to the Superior Court to evaluate whether there was other sufficient evidence of Jeanette’s intentions regarding the property.

Answer: B.

The right of the spouses in their separate property is as sacred as is the right in their community property, and when it is once made to appear that property was once of a separate character, it will be presumed that it maintains that character until some direct and positive evidence to the contrary is made to appear.  In re Estate of Borghi, 167 Wn2d 480 (2009).

The Supreme Court ruled that the deed was not sufficient evidence of an intention to change the character of Jeanette’s property from separate to community.  The Court, stating that “courts will not be bound by the terms of the deed but will look beyond it and ascertain, if possible, the true intent and purpose of the parties.”  Absent some other written and signed document indicating that Jeanette desired to transfer the property to community ownership, the Court had to presume that the property retained its separate character up until Jeanette’s death.

So what kind of writing could have satisfied the Court that Jeanette wanted to gift her separate property to the community? The Court pointed out that there are at least two ways that a spouse can convert separate property into community property.  The first way is to execute a quit claim deed transferring property to the community.  The second is to enter into a community property agreement which generally converts all existing and future property of both spouses into community property.  And, the court noted that a spouse could “otherwise in writing evidence his or her intent” to make a gift of separate property to the community.

You can read the full Borghi opinion here.

Best Interests Of The Child: What It Means

If you’ve ever been involved in a child custody dispute in Washington, you are probably familiar with, or have at least heard of the concept of “best interests of the child.”   The best interests of the child standard is a Washington court’s primary and most important consideration when making decisions about children.  Indeed, we’ve touched on the best interests standard in some of our previous articles about parenting.  But just what does the “best interests” standard mean?  In this series, we’ll take a look at some Washington cases that shed some light into what the “best interests” standard means, and how it works when applied to a specific family.

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But first, let’s take a look at the Washington law that sets out the best interests standard, RCW 26.09.002:

Parents have the responsibility to make decisions and perform other parental functions necessary for the care and growth of their minor children. In any proceeding between parents under this chapter, the best interests of the child shall be the standard by which the court determines and allocates the parties’ parental responsibilities. The state recognizes the fundamental importance of the parent-child relationship to the welfare of the child, and that the relationship between the child and each parent should be fostered unless inconsistent with the child’s best interests. Residential time and financial support are equally important components of parenting arrangements.

The best interests of the child are served by a parenting arrangement that best maintains a child’s emotional growth, health and stability, and physical care. Further, the best interest of the child is ordinarily served when the existing pattern of interaction between a parent and child is altered only to the extent necessitated by the changed relationship of the parents or as required to protect the child from physical, mental, or emotional harm.

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Another statute, RCW 26.09.180(3), addresses specific factors that a court should consider when determining what kind of custody arrangement serves any child’s best interests:

(a) The court shall make residential provisions for each child which encourage each parent to maintain a loving, stable, and nurturing relationship with the child, consistent with the child’s developmental level and the family’s social and economic circumstances… the court shall consider the following factors:

(i) The relative strength, nature, and stability of the child’s relationship with each parent;

(ii) The agreements of the parties, provided they were entered into knowingly and voluntarily;

(iii) Each parent’s past and potential for future performance of parenting functions as defined in RCW 26.09.004(3), including whether a parent has taken greater responsibility for performing parenting functions relating to the daily needs of the child;

(iv) The emotional needs and developmental level of the child;

(v) The child’s relationship with siblings and with other significant adults, as well as the child’s involvement with his or her physical surroundings, school, or other significant activities;

(vi) The wishes of the parents and the wishes of a child who is sufficiently mature to express reasoned and independent preferences as to his or her residential schedule; and

(vii) Each parent’s employment schedule, and shall make accommodations consistent with those schedules.

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The way that any one of the above factors will play out in any one custody dispute is as unique as each family that comes into the court.  So, Washington courts have to make an intensive examination of the facts in every case in order to determine what kind of custody arrangement is in any one child’s best interests.  The results of this examination are varied, and, occasionally, a bit surprising.  We hope that this series will not only show you how the “best interests” standard operates in practice, but also dispel some myths about how the court’s make decision about child custody.

So, this series will take a close look at each of the factors that the court is supposed to consider, and discuss custody cases where those factors were in dispute.  Next week we’ll take a look at some cases which address factor (i) the relative strength, nature, and stability of the child’s relationship with each parent.

The term “temporary orders” is shorthand for a number of different orders that you can ask the Court to enter prior to the finalization of your divorce.  They are temporary in the sense that they will be in force until they are replaced by the orders entered when you finalize your divorce (or, occasionally, later temporary orders).

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WHY YOU NEED THEM

Getting a divorce in King County can take a long time.  Temporary orders provide divorcing spouses with an initial set of governing documents that cover everything from who pays the mortgage to who gets the Wii.

Just about everything we commonly associate with a finalized divorce, such as child support, a parenting plan, spousal maintenance, and division of property, can also be dealt with before your divorce is completed, through temporary orders.

Some people are able to reach agreement on some, or all of the issues that can be litigated through a motion for temporary orders.  However, if you and your soon-t0-be-ex-spouse cannot reach an agreement, or if you feel your current, just-between-the-two-of-you agreement is not working, you can seek the court’s assistance.

HOW TO GET THEM

To get temporary orders, you must file a motion that asks the court for what you need, and explains why you need it.  Just like filing for divorce, the process of filing for temporary orders can be complicated, and usually involves a lot of paperwork.  At the outset, there are just two basic components of a Motion for Temporary Orders:

1.  Note for Motion Docket. Tells where and when the motion will be heard.

2. Motion and Declaration for Temporary Orders.

However, for most people these two documents will not be enough.  If you are asking the Court for any kind of financial relief (such as temporary spousal maintenance or an order that tells your ex to pay the Visa bill) you also need:

3.  A Financial Declaration. Sworn statement on your earnings and expenses.

4. Sealed Financial Source Documents. You have to include the last two years of tax returns, and the last six months of paystubs and bank statements. These are filed with the court under seal so that no one can look at them but the court.

What if you have kids?  You probably need an order setting out where, when and with which parent the kids will live.  And, of course, it would be helpful to determine exactly how much each parent needs to pay towards the kids’ support.  So, you will also need:

5.  A Proposed Temporary Parenting Plan.

6.  A Proposed Child Support Order.

7.  Child Support Worksheets.

You can find all of these forms  Washington Court patterns forms site except for the Note For Motion Docket and Sealed Financial Source Documents forms, which you will find in the forms directory of the King County Clerk’s Office.

Like our article on filing for divorce, we’re going to provide information on each individual component of a temporary orders motion in bite sized chunks, one post at a time, about once a week.

stacks-of-paperGetting a divorce is way more complex than it probably should be.   In fact, depending on your case, you could end up filling out 25 or 30 forms en route to your freedom. Think of it as Washington’s way of supporting the logging industry, one unhappy marriage at a time.

Don’t fret, though.  We’re here to help.   Because divorce can be such an overwhelming experience, we take a bite-sized approach, giving a brief explanation of just one form per article.

To get the ball rolling in order to file for divorce in King County, you just need to fill out 5 forms:

  1. A Summons
  2. A Petition For Dissolution (Divorce)
  3. A Case Assignment Designation and Case Info Cover Sheet (CICS)
  4. A Confidential Information Form (CIF)
  5. A Vital Statistics Form for the Department of Health.

You also need to hand over some cold hard cash ($250) along with the documents to the nice court clerk at either the downtown Seattle courthouse or the Maleng Regional Justice Center in Kent.

Here are some links to other sites that have lots of self-help documents. Unfortunately, these how-to guides are long and complex, and you might just think that  it’s easier to stay married.

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Still, these sites have lots of great, and sometimes unexpected, information – like a divorce guide in Bulgarian!

For much, much more information, go to:

For those who’d rather not read a 76-page pdf, stay tuned here.  Decoupling’s ongoing resource series will include literally dozens of other forms – one form at a time – that are either always or sometimes necessary for getting unhitched in King County.

Divorce is, obviously, a difficult process.  But with a little help,  you’ll at least be able to get through this morass of forms, to get the process going.  It’s the first step to getting on with the rest of your life….

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What Is Legal Separation?

Question: What is the difference between legal separation and dissolution (divorce)?

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Answer: Not much.  The main practical difference is that you can’t get remarried.  In all other respects – property settlement, child support, etc. – you are as good as divorced.

People usually pursue legal separation instead of divorce for one of three reasons:

  1. They have religious beliefs that discourage divorce.
  2. One spouse really needs the health insurance of the other spouse (though many insurance companies now terminate benefits upon a final Decree of Legal Separation).
  3. They are – maybe in the back of their minds – considering reconciliation.

Note that once a Petition for Legal Separation has been filed, either spouse may file a motion to convert it into a Divorce, before or after the case is finalized.  The other spouse has no legal right to object to this.

Divorce is Double No Good

Historically, divorce has been a nasty business with equally nasty terminology.  “Custody” and “alimony” conjure up images of bile-spewing, decades-long battles.  Washington, like many states, has altered the terminology of many key divorce concepts in an effort to escape the loaded words of the bad old days, probably in the hope that more harmonious language will mean more harmonious litigation.

Is this Orwellian double-speak?  Enlightened social engineering?  Or just six to one, half a dozen of the other?  You be the judge.

You may be surprised to learn that today we don’t even have “divorce” in Washington.  Instead, we have “dissolution,” suggesting that the process of unhappy spouses going their separate ways is as smooth and painless and sugar melting in a cup of tea.  Gone, too, are the accusations of adultery and mental cruelty, once a prerequisite to even getting divorced, for we are now a “no-fault State.”

Whatever you call it, it's still not funSo far as the law of Washington is concerned, an irretrievably broken marriage is like bad weather:  we can figure out why it happened if we want to, but no one is to blame.

Scornful spouses are no longer Plaintiffs and Defendants (terms we still use in other civil litigation matters).  Instead, the spouse who starts the litigation and pays the court filing fees is the “Petitioner,” while the other is the “Respondent.”  Makes it seem as easy as signing a petition at the mall for more hiking trails or responding to a letter from an old college chum.

And here’s some good news for you high-wage earners: “Alimony” is a four-letter word of the past.  Instead, you will be heartened to learn that now you simply pay “maintenance” – kind of like your homeowner dues.  Feels better already, doesn’t it?

Gone, too, are ruinous “custody fights” of decades past, because custody no longer even exists.  Instead, divorced fathers and mothers “co-parent” their children through a meticulously crafted “Parenting Plan” featuring all sorts of tranquil sections like  “Joint Decision-Making.” So now, instead of losing custody, you simply become the “non-residential parent.”  And who, really, has a problem with that?

But, traditionalists take heart, for some things never change: “Child support,” even in the brave new millennium, is still just “child support.”

de⋅cou⋅ple
[dee-kuhp-uhl] verb, -pled, -pling.

  1. to cause to become separated, disconnected, or divergent; uncouple.
  2. to absorb the shock of (a nuclear explosion): a surrounding mass of earth and rock can decouple a nuclear blast.
  3. to separate or diverge from an existing connection; uncouple.

Origin: 1595–1605; de- + couple

What about Decoupling Blog?

Should you read Decoupling with your kids? Maybe not.Decoupling offers a simple guide to common court forms, survival tips, news, humor, pop quizzes on recent cases, and answers to general family law questions.

Family law is difficult, messy terrain. We love it, however, for one simple reason – it matters.  Family law deals with the toughest stuff of life – protecting your house, your pension, your entire future, and most importantly, your children.

Decoupling, whether from a marriage or a domestic partnership, is nearly always a traumatic event that no one plans for any more than they do a car accident.  Surviving the process is, for most people, decoupling’s foremost challenge.  And for us lawyer folk, helping to clear the path so that you can thrive again is the craft of decoupling.

I decided to create the Decoupling Blog for two main reasons:

First, I want to simplify the forms and rules regarding family law actions in King County.  Sometimes the forms and rules are so complex that even us lawyers routinely screw them up.  One Court Commissioner recently told me that he was astounded that pro se‘s (folks without lawyers) ever successfully navigate their own divorces at all.  I recently became Chair of the Local Rules sub-committee of the Family Law Section of the King County Bar Association (try to say that three times fast!), so that I  could help make our county court rules more logical, more intuitive, and more simple.  Eventually, this should help both lawyers and non-lawyers navigate this area of law.  It’s a big job, however, and in the end, the judges make the rules, not me.  In the mean time, I want to help people understand not only what forms they need but also what these forms do.

Unfortunately, many lawyers actually like complex rules.  Sometimes, I am afraid that this is true because lawyers believe that complex rules give them job security.  However, people ought to hire family law attorneys for our insight, experience, pragmatism, and willingness to fight for a fair result – not because of byzantine court procedures.

Second, while family law is very serious business, I want to encourage clients and attorneys to stay positive and light-hearted.  Cases seem to flow much smoothly when neither the clients nor their attorneys take themselves seriously.  Plus, clients who keep their sense of humor throughout the decoupling process usually land on their feet, ready to move on to the next chapter of their life.  Much of the divorce-related humor I see, however, tends to be cynical, mean-spirited, and worst of all, not funny.   It’s my goal to inject some levity into this difficult subject, while still being respectful to all involved.

This blog is a service of Rao & Pierce PLLC.  I thank my partners Tom Bao Pierce and Katy Banahan for their support, for showing me every day how to be a better lawyer, and for never taking themselves too seriously.

Decoupling seeks, above all, to be useful and insightful.  Let us know how we’re doing, and please let us know if you find any expired links or information that you think is incorrect.

Cheers,
Christopher Rao
Managing Partner, Rao & Pierce PLLC